Not what you think.  After years of sleeping on queen sized mattresses, my wife and I finally upgraded to a king.  The change has been amazing.   We now have room for both of us and two cats, although for some reason they still insist on sleeping in our air space.

Only one small problem: without a headboard our pillows keep falling to the floor.   As you can see the spot for our bed is tight and a king sized headboard won’t do.    So after some debate we agreed on a headboard style and I ordered a queen sized headboard.  Of course the minute we agreed on a color — Pewter, one of those colors not found in nature — Wayfair.com  was out of it so we had to wait almost two months for it to arrive on back order.

Once it arrived, as I kinda suspected, the legs were designed to line up with a Queen sized bed frame so of course our King didn’t fit right. I had to make some DYI-adjustments — see below.

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Tech Thursday

Is it finally the End of Email?

In mid-July, the last telegraph will be sent. The Telegraph and its love child, the telegram, and even its bastard cousin the fax have all pretty much gone the way of the Do-Do. All of them have more-or-less been replaced by a youngster called e-mail, which has actually been around longer than many people realize.

I would say I was a relatively early adopter of email. Having gotten free access to a UNIX based account in college, I loved the ability to send a message to a friend in another city without having to find a stamp, an envelope, and their snail mail address. And getting a response the same day instead of a week later was very addictive.

The thing I really appreciated though was the fact that I didn’t have to hand write a letter. Since my handwriting and even my printing is atrocious – top Egyptologists can’t decipher some of it – I have used a computer to write letters to my friends since word processors became more prevalent. Of course, then I started working in the 7th Circle of Hell complete with fluorescent lighting, AKA Corporate America and email kinda started to lose its charm.

Anyone with a work-related inbox knows what I’m talking about. A dozen emails to set up a meeting time. Documents attached and edited and re-edited until no one knows which version is current. Urgent messages drowning in forwards and cc’s and spam. Not to mention the learning curve as people from different backgrounds and stations in life embraced and/or resisted the new communication technology.

While Groupware products like Exchange (known as the Outlook calendar among non-techy mortals) and Lotus Notes solved the problem of scheduling meetings and Document Management Software solved the problem of content collaboration, email management is still a reactive instead of proactive endeavor. And yet Yahoo, MSN, and even AOl have been working or have recently completed revamping their email systems to be more like Gmail.

These days I don’t get very many personal emails. Most of my emails are retailer mailings, newsletters, blog subscriptions* and the like. Most people use FB-mail for email which I absolutely abhor because it is so user unfriendly. What you gain in speed, you sacrifice in functionality.

Aside from the Nigerian Princes needing my bank account, no one writes me anymore

Aside from the Nigerian Princes needing my bank account, no one writes me anymore

Texting has replaced email for the most part. I have some friends who insist on only using text messages and I just give up when something needs to be communicated beyond the 140 character limit. Ironically these same people have smartphones that get their email too. Email isn’t going away anytime soon. It’s just being seated at the back table of the wedding reception of life, next to kindergarten friends, camp playmates and your parents (old) friends.

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Adventures in House Hunting, Buying a House, Open House Sunday

Garage Saleing: An unorthodox approach to evaluating a neighborhood when buying a house

When you’re shopping for a home and trying to decide if a place is in a good neighborhood, many realtors will tell you to drive around the area at different times of the day (and night) to see what it looks like. They might also suggest you call the local police station and talk to the desk sergeant. But there’s another less known approach that might reveal lots of interesting inside: the local garage sales!

In some neighborhoods, garage sales have taken on a life of their own with special significance: a community will hold a communal garage sale involving dozens or hundreds of families at the same time. What a great way to meet the future potential neighbors!

The sales is typically held inside a garage, driveway, carport, front yard, porch, or occasionally, the interior of a house, giving you a sneak peak of what people have done to their personal space.

You can tell a lot about a person by the stuff they are trying to get rid of. Are the items new, like-new, or just usable? Is it last year’s Pottery Barn collection or a collection that simply is going to pot?

While this can give you a peak into the economic mix of the neighborhood, you can also learn about your potential future neighbors personalities.
Often there are people who have decided they want everything gone — She doesn’t want it back in the house, he doesn’t want to schlep it back into the house — therefore it’s priced to sell. This is a person who makes a decision and sticks to it. Get to know her!

Then there’s the guy who wants to make back every dime he ever spent on the junk. Sure that anvil vise is priced fair at $20, but for five bucks more you can buy it new at Harbor Freights. Garage Fail! This is the guy who probably won’t lend you his snow blower without a deposit and will keep score of how many times you shoveled his walk versus how many times he shovels yours.

Speaking of power tools, I’m still looking for the wife who is so pissed at her husband, she sells his band saw and drill press for a song.


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The Little House that Could

One of the houses that would often come up on my searches is 5056 W Winnemac Ave in Jefferson Park.

From the outside, this looked to be a decent looking 5 bedroom 3 bath house that seems to have been converted into separate apartments. Legal 3 unit building is what the description said, though I question how you can legally have 3 units in a place this size.

Three apartments in here?  But where do they put the pool?

Three apartments in here? But where do they put the pool?


The configuration would make it good for what’s known as an in-law suite which is French for *you have to take care of one set of parents anyway so you might as well get free child care out of the deal*.

It’s been on and off the market a dozen times since 2010. Over the years I’ve made appointments to see it however the day of the appointment we’d get a call from the seller’s agent explaining that the comps didn’t come through for the place so unless we were making a cash offer, there wasn’t any point of seeing it.

As I said, it would show up in my search criteria but there wasn’t anything about it that made me yearn to see it. In fact, the lack of pictures along with the no Central A/C made it really easy to scratch off the Go See It List.

The owner — most likely a stubborn Pole* — wanted a certain price, $270K IIRC. Well it just sold on May 29 for $240K so it only took 3+ years to get within 10% of Asking Price, so yay Stubborn seller!

* Being Polish I can make those comments!


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